Hello, my name is Sophie, I am 33 years old, single and without children. At 34 years old and after many romantic disappointments and having found only a few trustworthy people, I realize that our society’s consumerist system also applies to people! What I’m going to say here is my personal opinion and I know that the generalities are not good but this only involves me… We take and throw away and replace partners as easily as a pair of socks!<\/p>\n
It’s so difficult to find one’ s mate nowadays that having a child with a person you think is “the right one for life” is not necessarily accurate! I prefer to find a person with whom I share a goal and a dream and with whom I can build a friendship! I want to be a single mom by myself because if I have to wait to find what I might never find (my prince charming) I am losing the best years of my life and the complicit time I could be spending with my child.<\/p>\n
After doing some research on the Internet, I ended up registering on several co-parenting meeting sites. Beginning is difficult, we don’t really know what to say or where to start. We learn a new vocabulary that was unknown to us at the time. Co-parenting, homo-parenting, home or natural insemination and of course co-father and co-mother.<\/p>\n
I am not only looking to be pregnant but I am also looking for a man who would like to share my dream of becoming a parent. I want my child to be happy and have a father and a role model as well as an understanding of his origins… This is my choice.<\/p>\n
I ended up talking to many men, all very interesting with different and diverse backgrounds and motivations, always in a courteous manner. We do not only choose based on feeling but also on what our child will look like in the future. Both physically and mentally. That’s why I would never have turned to an anonymous medical solution where you can’t know anything about the sperm that will be inseminated to you.<\/p>\n
After several encounters and some time to learn about us, I met THE person I imagined: Julien. The man who will be the father of my child. This man, who was a stranger to me until then and whom I have never seen before, will suddenly become very important to me for he will be THE FATHER OF MY CHILD.<\/p>\n
After several attempts to conceive (about 5 nights) the test finally delivered the long-awaited sign! I am very happy, Julien too. We’re both in our thirties, are single and will soon become parents.<\/p>\n
Long live co-parenting, this understanding of family that I didn’t know and that ultimately changed my life and filled me with happiness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sophie and Julien in shared co-parenting Hello, my name is Sophie, I am 33 years old, single and without children.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":132,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n