Succeed with your co-parenting

 

For several years now, co-parenting has been attracting more and more men and women.

The late completion of studies, a professional career to pursue, the infertility of one’s partner, a virtual lifestyle that hinders real encounters, not having found love yet, or simply a desire for freedom and singlehood…

Co-parenting is the answer to discover parenthood.

It is possible that you have not found love but want a child, or that you do not want to wait and risk exceeding the age at which you can have a baby.

One thing is certain, co-parenting allows 2 (or more) people to agree to have a child and raise that child with the love it deserves.

If you choose this family structure, there are some things you should avoid and some tips you should follow.

Coparentalys will therefore give you some key tips for achieving a successful co-parenting experience.

Tip 1: Don’t be in a hurry!

Don’t be hasty and don’t settle for the first one who shows up!

Take your time. You would be linked for life with the person you choose. He or she will be the mother or father of YOUR child…

Tip 2: Discuss and get to know the co-parent

It is absolutely necessary to discuss, meet several times, get to know the person as well as possible and get as close as possible.

Try to see if they are not playing a double game.

If you ever feel uncomfortable or in a grey area with the behavior of the co-father or the co-mother, don’t be afraid to talk about it.

Tip 3: Moving into action and trying to conceive

HIV/AIDS and other tests: MANDATORY WITH NO EXCEPTIONS TO THIS RULE! I put it in bold because it is the most important advice in my opinion.

Avoid catching a disease by accepting out of desperation not to refuse a donation or an attempt when the co-parent is not up to date.

We are on the internet and there are no tests required when registering on the website so it’s up to you to be careful!

Tip 4: The future and the way we see life afterwards!

Because when we talk about the baby with the future co-parent we imagine a pretty little face and babbling and smiles on that cute little face, but we shouldn’t overshadow the reality.

How does the other person perceive the pregnancy process? Is he going to be present? Will she agree to let him be present during the ultrasound? Will he acknowledge the child? How to manage your joint custody? How often? Where will the child live? Are the families aware of this project?

In short, be as clear as possible about the future with the co-parent so that you do not find yourself in a situation that may put you through a difficult time or suffer from a situation that was initially blissful and may become a source of pain.

Tip 5: Keep up with the times

One last piece of advice. Don’t worry about what people might say. Because you will most likely hear it. Mentalities evolve at a slower pace than Smartphones but you shouldn’t be afraid, go for it because having a child is the most beautiful project you can do in your life.

Hence the importance of finding the best possible co-parent with whom you can share this bliss… And who knows, maybe you’ll end up raising the child under the same roof.