The top 5 qualities of the ideal co-parent

 

Finding the ideal co-parent requires above all to have an excellent feeling towards him or her. You must be able to rely on each other, because having a child will bind you for life! Also make sure that the person has all the right qualities to be a good co-parent.

 

The ” sporty ” co-parent!

 

Yes, being a parent can be a sport! Especially nowadays when most parents work! Your ally will therefore need to have a sense of challenge, be able to think of a thousand things at the same time and be enduring in order to reach fulfillment between his parenting life, his working life and… his life in general. Also, sport is good for your health, so if your co-parent knows how to take care of him or herself, you have found a very good co-parent! Don’t let go of him/her!

 

The available co-parent

 

What’s worse for a child than to grow up constantly running into his parents in a rush? Even if it is true that in adolescence, children need freedom, and are better off seeing their parents less, during their early childhood it is essential that they have at least one parent available, if not 2 or more. Because yes, co-parenting can bring together up to 4 parents, isn’t that wonderful?

People looking for a co-parent often have a strong desire to become parents, despite the difficulties they face. When they finally become parents, the relationship with their child is often more fundamental than for a “classic parent”. Make sure, when choosing your future co-parent, that he or she does not make this decision without taking everything into consideration, so that he or she can be available for the future family.

 

The sociable co-parent

 

Co-parenting, more than a desire to become a parent, is a personal commitment and even a civic one. Fighting for the right to have a child, for everyone. Give liberty to those who want to help others start their own families, for example by donating their sperm. To achieve their full potential, it is in the best interest of the co-parent to be self-sufficient in society, to express their situation, however unconventional, but above all, to enjoy life by spending time together in a community environment.

 

The co-parent without taboos

 

In France, taboos are being broken on LGBT issues. Slowly, but steadily. The ideal co-parent is probably the one to whom we can ask all the unpleasant questions, without it causing him to be upset. For co-parenting raises many questions, especially for those who are just discovering the concept.

Feel free to discuss co-parenting without taboos, which is an essential asset for co-parenting!

 

The co-parent on a permanent contract… or not

 

These days, many people struggle not only to find a stable income, but also to find a sustainable professional situation. Although the permanent contract is a reassuring formula, there are obviously other profiles that provide reassurance, sometimes even more.

When considering co-parenting, this subject should not be taboo either. Can the work situation affect your plan to become a parent?

Even if you want to become a parent without being in a relationship, you will still need to know a lot about the other person’s life.

 

The confidant co-parent

 

A father, a mother, whether gay or straight, in a couple or not, is the child’s first point of reference, the one to whom the child tells everything (in the beginning!). Which of his co-parents will be his confidant, the one who will listen to him when he feels heavy-hearted, has a difficulty, a delicate question… or simply wants to talk, to laugh! An available, sporty, sociable, liberated and confident co-parent, it is the “co-parent’s jackpot”!