Tips to prepare for your baby’s arrival. What do you need to know?

That’s it! Your pregnancy is starting and you are thrilled. A few months later, the belly begins to reveal a beautiful round shape. After having done all the necessary examinations and vaccinations, it is time to prepare for the birth of your little one. The arrival of a baby in your life is a source of many changes and should not be taken lightly nor without preparation. In order to live and enjoy maternity as much as possible, organization and planning are key elements. Here are some ideas that might help you experience the arrival of your little one with serenity.

When should the preparation begin?

The arrival of a new-born baby is prepared well in advance, but it is still necessary to wait until you find out the sex of the baby before proceeding with the organization. Since this information is available as of the 5th month, it is advisable to start preparing from that moment. If you start too early, you may buy clothes and equipment that are not appropriate for your child’s sex.

However, if you start the preparatory work too late, you will not have enough strength to do everything the way you want. Be aware that from the 7th month, a pregnant woman begins to feel a severe fatigue almost similar to the one experienced at the beginning of the pregnancy.

Concerning the equipment, what should be prepared?

• For the mother

After childbirth, the mother has to deal with many changes. For both you and your baby’s comfort, it is best to change your wardrobe by first adding maternity clothes to your closet. Bras, breastfeeding cushions or pillows may be necessary.

• For the child

If you plan to breastfeed your baby or choose mixed breastfeeding, you might want to consider a breast pump. The latter exists in different models and brands. In case you choose an exclusive bottle feeding diet, it is advisable to buy a bottle kit with a variety of accessories (flow nipple, pacifiers, brushes, bottles with different capacities…).

For his or her hygiene, you have a choice between cloth diapers or disposable diapers, however, the size must be appropriate for a new-born baby. A changing table, water-based and unscented wipes and a diaper bin complete this equipment. Your little angel also needs other accessories to be clean. He or she will need a bath cape, a thermometer to control the temperature of the bath water and a soap suitable for his or her delicate skin.

In the children’s room

In addition to small pieces of furniture such as a cradle or a cot bed, the baby’s room must also include a piece of furniture to store his or her clothes. Since the child will spend a lot of time in this room, it is important to arrange it according to the gender of the baby. Also consider installing a chest with changing table so that you can change the baby in complete safety.

At first, a new-born does not necessarily need a blanket, a sleeping bag and a comforter are enough to keep him or her warm. His or her clothes are complemented with onesies and cuddly outfits. It should be remembered that these clothes maintain the optimal temperature of their body and should not affect their fragile skin. For that reason, clothing made of natural materials, such as cotton, is the most appropriate.

Financial preparation: more than necessary

With the number of things you need to buy and the changes you need to make, the arrival of a new-born baby requires a well-established financial plan. Unless you want to have an unpleasant surprise, it is a good idea to make a list of everything you need. In addition to hospitalization costs (if necessary), childcare equipment and breastfeeding equipment, remember to include in your list of expenses both clothing and care products intended for you and your little one.

Additionally, the purchase of furniture and the layout of the small bedroom also require an investment. It is best to keep a record and take into consideration every detail for the comfort of your little angel.

Preparing mentally and physically for delivery

Contrary to popular belief, labour is a normal process and should not frighten the mother-to-be. Before the big day, it is recommended to choose a clinic that suits you. In addition, being able to ask questions and confide in a health professional of your choice can be reassuring.

In order to experience a good labour and welcome the baby with joy, you must know yourself and have an idea of how the event will unfold. For example, you can ask a midwife about the possibility of having your baby with an epidural or naturally. When you are mentally and physically prepared, the first encounter with the baby is a magical moment.

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