I am looking for an American or European male that’s located in the U.S. That is financially stable to be a provider and father /co parent as I feel this is important, I want the entire experience of having a father in these kids lives as I grew up without one. Custody would be 50/50 unless you prefer me to have custody at 100%. I still want an active father figure for the kids. I am 47 hispanic female and have been unsuccessful in finding the right person to have kids with in terms of succesful marriage and or partnership. I would love to have a couple kids. The only option for me is to adopt and then co parent ( Platonic co-parenting) as I am unable to have kids. Ideally it would be nice if the person was in my state and we could closely work to make this happen to raise this family as adoption is easier here in my state especially if we were to foster a child with the intent to adopt, however open to other ideas here. I do not expect any romantic connection in all of this, but if one happens I am open if its mutual, but a high level of familial love, care & respect for eachother in which I would imagine would flourish beautifully long term. I would like to get to know the other co parent on a human level. A friendship of sorts where through a period of time, conversations and meetups a closer bond will develop that is more personal/ platonic. I keep the door of romance open incase there may be a match but I am not going into this with that preconception. The co- parent I am looking for would be between the ages of 35-55, financially stable and secure longterm and would be consciously present.

My immediate family is here in Albuquerque and would like to stay here but I am willing to move if the match is a sold one. I am originally from Los Angeles, California and would not mind moving there as I have alot more extended family and they have kids. I am the oldest of my immediate family and of all my entire extended family. I have 2 brothers younger than me but they are adults. My mother is still living and active.

I come from a long line of strong women who are the foundation of all there families. I also am well travelled as I have lived and travelled in Europe for 15 years. I recently came back to the States 6 years ago due to a failed marriage. My occupation generally is in Operations Management /COO for construction companies. I am also an entrepreneur and creative visionairy. I am an intellect and generally a modern woman I have real compassion and understanding for people. I have mentored many kids and young adults in my time. In terms of religion I was raised christian, but have become more of a spiritual person. I am non judgemental and believe in right and wrong with exception to understanding there are some grey in areas. I have never done drugs but do socially drink when I do go out, pretty much a straight arrow. My circle is small. I am certain about things in my life and I am in active pursuit of life itself and everything it has to offer. Having children is on that list and a joy I cannot miss out on. For everything life has to offer this is greatest job and joy and even more important these days for the type of future we are going into. As of 7/2026 Currently I am getting into the medicine field to become a nurse or nurse practitioner.

I have never done anything like this before as I know there will be plenty of things to iron out. In order for me to focus on raising kids I will need to co-parent with someone who is financially stable and is focused on longterm stability and security for the kids as well as being an active father. I am realistic about the future and believe who ever I choose will be the right choice.