I'm an engineering leader based in Singapore, originally with a background spanning India and Southeast Asia. I head up engineering at a healthtech company building AI-powered patient monitoring devices, and I've spent the last decade plus across companies like Goldman Sachs, Flipkart, and a Singapore mobility startup. Financially stable, settled in Singapore long-term, and at a point in life where I've thought carefully about wanting to be a father.
Outside work, I train regularly with strength work and jogging, currently building toward a 10K. I travel around Southeast Asia when I can and have an ongoing interest in food. I'm direct in how I communicate, pragmatic, and tend to think things through carefully before committing, which is part of why co-parenting appeals to me as a path. It's intentional rather than accidental, and both people go in with eyes open.
What I'm looking for is a thoughtful, stable partner who genuinely wants to raise a child and is willing to do the long work of aligning on values, logistics, and expectations before anything happens. I'd want us to take real time getting to know each other, talk honestly about parenting philosophy, finances, schooling, location, and the harder "what if" scenarios, and put a proper agreement in place with legal advice. Happy to connect with people in Singapore or open to discussing arrangements with someone elsewhere if the fit is right.